Monday

Some Old Advice: Good Behavior and Social Etiquette



Here's a quote from a time when people thoughtfully considered in advance how their actions would impact those they connected with.

For our modern sensibilities it's quaint and too subjective. These days we like our etiquette served with a dose of exactness.

"When a lady does you the honor to offer her hand, take it with an air of grateful deference which will show how you appreciate the honor; do not drop it instantly as if the touch scared you, nor hold it so long as to cause her a feeling of uneasiness."

Standard Book of Politeness, Good Behavior and Social Etiquette
Anonymous, 1884





maralee mckee

1 comments:

Anonymous said...

I very much enjoyed my visit to your site today. Sometimes it seems good manners are a thing of the past. It is refreshing to know I have information readily available to answer any etiquette questions I may have.

Vicky
joyakers@frontiernet.net

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