
Greetings!
Planning any trips this summer? You might be surprised by the etiquette of vacation tipping. There are more people than most of us realize to show gratitude to both in word (“Thank you for carrying my bags!”) and in action (giving a tip)!
I’ve put together a simple, savvy vacation tipping etiquette guide so you’ll know who to tip and how much.
Now, this handy dandy list isn’t for you lucky world travelers. The etiquette of tipping varies nation by nation. In some parts of the world, a tip is actually considered an insult.
This is for all of us who are shorter on funds than usual this year and are loading up the mini-van or heading out on Budget Airlines R Us to enjoy a little R&R with our families in the nifty fifty states.
While the virtue of thriftiness is honorable on our part, when passed along at someone else’s expense it morphs into its ugly stepsister, “stinginess.”
The reality of our finances this year might force us to lower the star count of the hotel we choose. We might eat meals at chain restaurants instead of top picks of the Mobile® Travel Guide. These are practical steps; however, not appropriately tipping those who are providing for our comfort isn’t a budget option of the gracious and grateful.
In a time when fewer people are traveling, our tips count more than ever to those who not only serve us but also depend on our generosity for their livelihood.
Your Go-To List for Vacation Tipping Etiquette!
Airports:
• Curbside check-in: $1.00 per bag. It’s nice to tip up for the convenience of this service. If you have three bags, tip $5.00. More bags, tip up proportionally.
• Shuttle driver from the terminal to the rental car agency or offsite parking: $1.00 per person, more if he or she helped load your bags.
• Taxi: 15% of the fare, more if he’s helpful with bags. Never less than $1.00 even for short rides.
Hotels:
• Doorman: No tip required for opening the door. Tip $1.00 for hailing you a cab, more if he did so in bad weather.
• Bellman: $1.00 per bag plus extra if he brings you ice or provides you with information about your hotel or the local area.
• Concierge: No tip is required for general hotel information like, “What time is breakfast served until?” You do tip for any special service such as making outside reservations, providing printed directions, reserving a car, booking a sightseeing tour, etc. How much to tip depends widely: $2.00 for printed directions up to $20 or more for making special arrangements.
• In-room Dining: A service charge will be added to your bill, but that goes to the hotel, not usually to the person delivering your meal. Add at least 10%, not less than $3.00.
• Hotel Dining Room: The same tipping traditions apply as in any restaurant.
• Maid: This is the most overlooked and little-known tip in all of tip land! When staying for more than one night, tip at least $1.00 per day, per person. This is a perfect time to tip up! (Leave $5.00 for three people.) Place the tip each morning on the desk with a note that says, “For our Maid” so she knows it’s hers. I always write a short thank-you. Something like, “Good morning! Thank you for the joy of coming back to a clean room each day! We appreciate your work on our behalf!” I have had maids run down the hall to thank us, not to mention extra chocolates on our pillows.:) It’s a perfect way to express your gratitude to someone who works hard for little money or recognition.
Tour Guides:
• Taking a quick city tour to learn the local lore? Lucky you! Make sure to thank your guide. About $3.00 to $5.00 per person (no need to include babies and toddlers) is a good average.
Well, there’s the start of our list! Who else should we add? Comment and join the conversation! Also, share any budget-friendly and family-friendly vacation spots you know and love.
I’ll mostly be enjoying a staycation this summer. If you’re traveling, I wish you a safe and joy-filled journey!
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13 comments:
I LOVED reading this!!!!! Thank you so much for this post!
Whenever we go on vacation, I always fill an envelope with dollar bills for the hotel maid. I also try to tidy up a bit before we leave our room. I know a lot of people who only tip the maid on the last day of their stay but as there are likely different maids for each day, I always leave a note and a few dollars each day on our pillow for her.
Whenever I travel alone, I make sure to put a few five dollar bills in my tip envelope as well. You know that shuttle that takes you from the parking lot to the terminal? Those steps are IMPOSSIBLE for me to get my suitcase up! I can pull it behind me but it always weighs too much for me to be able to actually lift (hey, I like shoes, sue me!). The driver is always very kind to help me do this and I make sure to tip him extra for his kindness.
I've always been impressed with how helpful people are if you are traveling alone and just ask. :)
I don't think a lot of people realize that some of these occupations actually pay less because they assume folks will tip.
Thanks for another FABULOUS post, Maralee!! Perfect timing! Now I just need to go to Disney World! I print out little Mickey Mouse thank you notes for that!
Gratefully,
Christy
P.S. I blushed when you wrote about me!!! I feel all famous! lol You are too sweet! Can't wait to have you at Bountiful!
I have not been lucky enough to travel anywhere or stay anywhere for the chance to tip. But now I have this little guide for when I one day get my honey moon!
Any suggestions on valet parking attendants? We were just at a hotel where we used it, and weren't sure how much and whom to tip? (The person who parked the car and the person who retrieves it?
Thanks!
P.S. Your presence in the world makes it a better place.
You're awesome!
Ahhh.. good information to have. I rarely go out of town so I never know what to tip.
I always tip my waitperson 20% or more. I've been in their shoes. The service would have to be downright horrible for me not to.
I went out to dinner with friends and they were so horribly rude to our waitperson.. HE actually broke out in tears. I never accepted another invitation from them again.
Bad service is not always the waitperson's fault.
As long as a Rat doesn't pop up out of my Pasta and wave to me, I'm pretty much happy.
Hi Maralee, I think you might include valet (the guys who park and retrieve your car) to your tip etiquette post. This is my first message after signing up and I loved it. I found you on Southern Plate, BTW. Thanks!
Pat
What a wonderful way to remind us how important it is for us to show our gratitude to those wonderful service people who make our vacations fabulous and make us feel loved and pampered!
Using our "Tipping Etiquette Guide" lets those who depend on tips for their income know that we respect and appreciate them. Thanks for combining all the information together!
We need to remember to tip spa attendents, stylists, babysitters, bartenders and valet attendants as well.
I would love to have a copy of this wonderful "Etiquette Tipping Guide" in a printable format to take with me when I travel!
I love all your up to date and savvy etiquette posts that remind us how important using our manners is in today's fast paced and mobile society with all the high tech gadgets at our finger tips!
The joy in life comes from our relationships and interaction with others both verbal and nonverbal.
Thank you for bringing joy into my life. You are a very sweet and wonderful person!
Blessings!
Abigail R. Thomas
P.S. Happy Birthday!!! Enjoy your day tomorrow, you deserve it!
You make my heart dance! Thank you for your kind words. What an honor you enjoyed the post.
You are a very gracious traveler, taking the time to put aside one dollar and five dollar bills in a special envelope is a fantastic way to be prepared for tipping.
In fact, I was going to add that to my blog, but it was getting long so I thought I better cut it. It's perfect that you brought it up!
Almost as important (maybe more so!) than the amount we tip is the way in which we hand it to the person. Our tips should be in our hands and ready to give as soon as the service is rendered. If not, there's always an akward moment or two as we dig thourhg our purses or wallets for the money and the service provider is basically forced to stand there with his or her out, if not literally out, than figuratively. Either way, it's not a good feeling for the tip giver or reciever.
Having the money in an easy to reach spot makes the tipping process less akward and more thoughtful.
Of course as we hand over the tip we want to include eye contact, a smile and a sincere, "thank you" used in a sentence. "Thank you for taking my bags to my room and showing me how the air conditioner works!"
A tip has two parts: the money, and the thoughtfulness!
What you said about leaving the tip for the maid each morning and not just on the last day of your stay is also a fantastic point. You want to make sure the money goes to the person who actually provided you with the service that day. The person on the last day of your trip may have never serviced your room before, yet he or she would be receiving all the compensation.
I've found, like you, that whenever I travel(in general)are as nice to me as I am to them. Everyone is drawn to kindness!
I remember one day standing outside the underground in Boston, just as lost as I could be. The nicest man stopped and got me on my way, sharing all kinds of tips about what to do and where to go. (Of course, while all of this was going on, my husband was walking away like he didn't know me, becuase he refused to let anyone know we were "turned around" as he called it. What we really were was lost at dusk in a part of Boston we had never seen!)Oh for the kindess of strangers!
Thank you again for your kindness!
PS: I would LOVE to see those Micky Mouse thank you notes. YOu are just the most thoughtful person Christy! What a joy to have you as a special part of our blog family!
A honeymoon?! How incrediable! When the day comes we'll want to hear all about it. We'll... all the G Rated parts!
I pray that honeymoon day comes quickly for you!
Blessings,
Maralee
Great question about car attendents and valets!
You're great tipping between $1 and $3. Vary your tip based on the location your in,(big city vs. small town), qualtiy of the hotel or resort (three star vs. five star) how far the person had to go get your car, and the weather he or she ran through to bring you your vehicle.
Hand the money to the person who opens the driver side door for you to enter when they bring your car back, not when you drop it off!
What usually happens (althoug not always) is that all the tip money goes into a pot for the evening and it's split between everyone on duty.
Thank you for your great conversation! What an honor you joined in the conversation! Pleae drop in all the time!
Always a joy to hear from you! I'm so sorry you had such a terrible experience with the people you were eating with. If I ate with someone who made the wait person cry, like you, I would never accept another dinner invitation with that person.
Regardless of bad service there's never a reason to make someone cry. A gentle word, unless they're coming at you with a kitchen knife, will usually go much further in leading the person to providing better service in the future than bringing him or her to tears.
In that scenerio that only thing the waiter learns is to have a bad opinion of the person making them cry. Any moment for training was eclipsed by the anger and fear that made them cry!
As always, your right!
BTW, if I ever came across the waving rat it would scare me, but later on, think of the good stroy it would make:) More fun than a Disney movie!
Thank you also for your great valet question. I answered it above in the question from, "Anonymous."
Welcome to the blog! I really honored you stopped by and commented. I hope you'll consider this a new blog home and will visit all the time! I look forward to getting to know you!
Blessings,
Maralee
Thanks for this post Maralee.
I will be vacationing in a couple of months and although I think I've got tipping sorted it's still always get to make sure.
We don't tip here and I think for a lot of Australians when we travel to countries where you do tip, we get overly concerned whether we're doing it right.
I was always never sure about tipping the driver when you organize a private car. I remember last time I had a car drive me to JFK and I had to pay the driver for the fare, and I had $60 (the car was $50) and I just gave him all the money because I thought "oh well, I'm leaving the country anyway!"
The first time I paid with a card I didn't know how to tip and the waiter came back and showed me where to write the amount for the tip on the receipt because I wrote it on the original bill!
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